Thank you for putting up with all the obnoxiousness and testing. I know it’s easy to come in and be antagonistic but I want you to know that I really respect your clinical training and knowledge and sometimes when you think you’re talking to a brick wall of resistance a lot more is getting through than you think. A lot of the defensive posturing is because of fear, …the need to control is greatest when fear is greatest. I believe God can heal this fear. Also I tremendously respect you as a person and manybe years from now when this proves is over we can be friends. (But) be forewarned you’ll probably be tested a lot more because you’re the first safe person we ever met who understood and didn’t yell ….when we were upset. I just wanted to say thank you because not matter how hard I try to pretend that I don’t are you make that very hard to do because your are so nice. S.N.